17 aug 2011

A day a girl say to a guy...

Girl say: Do you forgive me?
Guy say: har??
Girl say: Do you forgive me?(repeat)
Guy say: why!! what happen?
Girl say: nothing, just asking if i did wrong something,do you forgive me?
Girl say: if the thing is serious, will you forgive me?
Guy say: what the thing you do?
Girl say: just say if?
Guy say: OK!! (without thinking) i will forgive what you did, whatever you did wrong.
Guy say: BUT.... i will angry to you, really i will angry to you...angry what you did. why you did that without telling me at the 1st place.

above is a example:

the truth is why a guy will forgive what the girl did? maybe the girl kill people or did something wrong?

For me: i will forgive what the girl did because i still love her...the love i told is hard to explain to everyone, maybe someone have same feeling, for me i will forgive her, is i love you...this love is different from parent love, your god love, this is for you special one.

Every people have he/her special one in he/her heart, just duno how to express it.(LOVE) is unconditionally, it is based on your feeling.

for me how i know is love?? maybe just because i never so care about a girl, worry about a girl, never ever a people treat me so well because of my history.

i not a heathly guy, and i been in and out from hospital from half of my life(from kids until now), before that i never get this kind of care before, except from my parent, my parent is my closesse 1 to me, not even my good friend.

but her is different from my parent, different from my friend...i'm not leng zai also..and i'm not heathly also..and i have some skin proplem, my face always got pimples or scar..

but her do not complain anything, from the day i get my high pressure thing, she is taking care me in other way, she know i got a lot thing cant eat, she purposely go from 1 organic shop to another organic shop just because to find a sauce that i can use it. who willing to do that just because to buy a sauce? who!!! (except my parent and my church member) she is the 1 that wil do that,no 1 else..

i duno how to repay her back...i duno how...maybe by what i promise her...i will do it...do not judge her based on her age...because you duno her more than me, she have a mature thinking, but she still is a teenagers just like other, just she never will think so basic.

sometimes people will ask me, how old your GF is, then i say 19!! then they will say WA..so young oh...why i will choose her? what i will say...i will smile to them because the reason is i know you better than others...nonid to explain so much to other, just i know why then will enough already.

yesterday i have fun with her...long time no watch movie 2gether already...reli long time..hehe...

enjoy it when be with her, i can be back what am i ...be a kids also can...haha.

next time continuos...

7 Aug 2011

yesterday i have a conversation with her(heart to heart talk)...

actually every couple will have this kind of talk, so that it will make the relationship last longer( mine thinking)

if a couple no heart to heart talk, v never know how your GF or BF thinking..rite??

maybe will have 吵架, both of us have 吵架 be4...who never have??

if a couple no 吵架 be4, they must be have something...reli have something...not say 吵架 is a good thing, but it will make both of you realise both of you needed!!! more appreaciate both of you...吵架 is a communication between 2 person, is just from heart to heart talk 2nd edition(my opinion). heart to heart talk is calm and relax, but when 吵架 that time is not calm and relax...is nervous and angry...dun say a stupid thing while you in 吵架 situation...reli dun...when you say stupid thing while you 吵架, you will regret after 吵架, when you think back, why you will say that..you know it was wrong if you say that..

so next time you all 吵架, remember a thing, try to cool down yourself...dun let the anger influence your mind...that a way to pratice your EQ.

YUP!! it is a way to practice your EQ , why i say that??

duno le...people with high EQ is people that have good emotion...they wont feel angry all the time,because when they angry also, they will act like nothing...that high EQ. suitable time do suitable thing..so next time if you all 吵架, try not to say stupid and will regret after that word...it not worth it..try cool down your mind, think what happen, what cause it 1st...

many opinion say on 吵架, but this for mine opinion, mine thinking...no offence...

WE have 吵架 be4?? YUP

both of us have 吵架 be4 d..but everytime after 吵架, it will appreciated both of us...sometime i will think back why we will 吵架,(haha) stupid rite??? but everytime we 吵架, after 吵架 it, it feel like making our relationship more and more closer. not say couple is close edi..but the feel(you know what i mean).

just i duno how to express the feeling...i know the feeling...everytime i can feel your feeling, just duno how to express it..duno how to say it...can know it..hope you will forgive me duno how to express it...